The I'm Done Blocking My Blessings Masterclass is the premier dating and relationship course for professional women
The course teaches women who are ready to enter into their last committed relationship how to destroy unhelpful (and hurtful) patterns of thinking that impair their ability to find and receive love.
Does this sound like you?
I'm single because...
On the rare occasion I get approached, I've always been treated like an option. I've been overlooked, dumped for the next girl, ghosted on, and been wanted only for sex. I've tried to stay optimistic but I'm afraid my heart can't take anymore pain.
I'm single because...
l'm too much and I guess not enough all at the same time. I'm too intimidating, too educated, too tall, too dark, too fat, too weird, etc. I'm not pretty enough, nice enough, outgoing enough, or flirty enough. Basically, no one finds me attractive.
I'm single because...
No one ever seems to care for me as much as I do them. I'm not sure men are capable of the things I need from a partner. They aren't faithful, caring, consistent, or honest. And the ones that are -- are already taken.
Here is what we know to be true...
Repeating these thoughts over and over again is unhelpful and damaging to your soul... partially because they're just plain mean, but mostly because they aren't true (and don't argue, we can prove it to you)!
You can find love without compromising your values or changing who you are. In fact, this is the only tried and true way to maintain a lasting relationship.
You are what you think, you see what you believe, and you manifest what is in your heart. Your past experiences color the way you see the world and when you've had multiple heartbreaks and disappointments your beliefs tend to shift in an effort to protect yourself. Sadly, sometimes protecting yourself from hurt also protects you from joy.
Believing something today doesn't preclude you from believing something completely different tomorrow. It only takes one powerful experience to alter the way you think forever.
Just because your life hasn't turned out the way you planned, doesn't mean it still can't still be amazing. There's still time to get everything you want out of life.
The 10 Week Live Masterclass
For all my ladies who can honestly say, "I'm DONE blocking my blessings and I'm ready to get out and stay out of my own way when it comes to love and relationships," this one is for you!
Get ready for dating and relationship boot camp... or life boot camp may be a better term for it because the transformation ahead of you will not only change the game when it comes to dating, but it will change the way you look at your life forever.
Old habits don't die overnight, but give us 10 weeks, and poof!
Over 10 weeks, you'll experience 5 powerful life changing lectures that challenge the way you've been thinking and making decisions when it comes to love and relationships. The foundation for these lectures are to teach you about the top 5 thinking errors that science has identified as the bases for bad decision making (decisions that don't get you what you want out of life)! In addition to learning what they are, you'll learn how to identify when you are falling victim to them, how to stop doing it (even when it's subconscious), and what to do instead!
You will completely re-imagine the way you think about love, the way you think about yourself, and the way you make decisions in dating.
Go from seeing your future self as single and alone, to seeing your future self living a life of abundance filled with the blessings that you know are waiting for you.
Go from thinking all the good ones are already taken and that all the rest are liars and cheats, to knowing how to find and attract single people looking for long term commitments.
Go from believing who you are is too much or not enough, to believing you are truly amazing just as you are.
Go from manifesting absolutely nothing, to manifesting quality interactions with potential matches and prospects for your forever partner.
This is the core of the program. You'll experience 5 life changing live interactive video lectures that challenge everything you think you know about decision making when it comes to love and relationships.
Each lecture covers a different pattern of thinking. We provide real life, sista girlfriend practical examples, explain how each pattern impairs your ability to find and receive love, and teach you a new way of thinking to replace those old patterns that aren't getting you what you want out of life.
It's not enough to just learn something new, you have to implement it! We'll create an action plan at the end of each lecture where you'll identify your very next steps towards embracing your new ways of thinking. The following week you'll join a live accountability video chat - round robin style - where you'll report back on your homework assignments, ask questions, and get feedback from one of our Black Girl Doctors and from the group on your progress and dating adventures.
PLUS, refresh your learning at any time. You'll receive ongoing access to the recordings of all 5 lectures and all 5 accountability sessions so you can review them whenever you need to.
No mean girls allowed in this exclusive community. We learn better together and we succeed at greater heights when we have people to hold us accountable. Worried you won't follow through with your assignments? Or that you might freak out before a big date? Fear no more! You'll have an army of supportive women on your side, rooting for you. In between sessions, build genuine relationships with the other women taking the course in our private Facebook Group. Give and get support as you work together to beat old patterns of thinking and navigate dating and relationships.
You'll definitely need something shiny to show off your new transformation! As a gift for joining the class, you'll receive this exquisite 14k rose gold bangle as a physical reminder to manifest faith, hope, and love from the day you start this journey until forever more! Wear it daily as a physical reminder of what your future has in store.
2019 Course Schedule
Filtering refers to the way many of us can have laser sharp focus on either all the positive or all the negative in a situation, often becoming blind to the complete picture. In this lesson, you will learn how to recognize when you aren't seeing things clearly, and you will practice the art of seeing things not simply in a positive or negative way, but as they actually are in real life!
ALL OR NOTHING THINKING
All-or-Nothing Thinking is all about seeing yourself and the world as black and white only – with no shades of grey. Thinking this way leads us to make rash decisions and to be super critical of ourselves and others. Learn how the art of grace can help you live a more full colorful life -- free from the burdens of perfectionism.
Overgeneralization is when we form broad, sweeping conclusions based on very little experience or evidence. This way of thinking turns our minds into breeding grounds for self-limiting beliefs. Learn to stop your mind from creating artificial barriers that don't exist in the real word, banish feelings of insecurity, and stop selling yourself short and missing opportunities.
FALSE CONTROL BELIEFS
False Control beliefs can be internal or external. It's when we act as if everything that happens to us is either completely the result of external forces or all our own fault. Learn to stop operating under these false assumptions so you can stop feeling hopeless when you are not, and stop feeling guilty for things which you have no control.
Emotional Reasoning involves thinking that if we feel a certain way, it must be true. However, our emotions are not always indicative of the objective truth. Learn to differentiate feelings from facts, and practice the difficult task of looking past how you feel by evaluating your internal self-dialogue. Experience a control over your emotions you never imagined possible.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...
After I took "The Why Im Still Single Challenge" I THOUGHT I had learned a lot about myself and how I may be blocking my own blessings (finding my husband), but when I joined Dr. Tai in the masterclasses I realized that what I had gotten from the challenge was just the tip of the iceberg. She challenged me to breakdown my thought process, view my life through an unfiltered lens while still validating my own personal experiences. (If this is what therapy is about then sign me up!) Not only did I learn exactly how my thought process was holding me back, but I also learned how to apply these lessons directly to my life. I mean, I had to tell Dr. Tai what I was going to do TODAY to stop blocking my blessings... and I did! (and I've been doing it every day since!) I've never felt so empowered in my relationships as I do now. The practical skills I learned are invaluable to me and don't just help me with my love life, they help me in ALL areas of my life. If you're on the fence about whether or not you want to give this a try, take me as an example. The few hours I spent in the masterclasses have drastically improved my love life and I'll tell anyone who will listen... Sign up girl, its the bomb!
Ready to Sign Up?
Here at The Black Girl Doctor we're super excited about pouring our time into deserving women who are tired of feeling frustrated, hopeless, and insecure about dating. In this course, we'll coach you through a journey of self discovery to rid yourself of painful insecurities and into a space where you can see life the way it was mean to be. And most importantly, you'll begin to manifest the blessings that are out there waiting for you. Contrary to what's trendy right now in positive psychology, we don't teach positivity in this course, we teach realism. You can't manifest what you can't see, and you can't see what you don't believe (so we start there, by challenging your beliefs). If you're open to the idea that just maybe your current ways of thinking and seeing the world are out of alignment with your destiny... then we can't wait to meet you!
This course is custom designed for women who know the value of investing in themselves and who despite their current situation, know they deserve happiness.
READY TO ENROLL?
Schedule a 15 minute discovery call to make sure this is right for you.
We can't wait for you to get started. On your pre-enrollment call you'll be able to speak directly with one of our Black Girl Doctors and get all of your questions answered before enrolling! If you love everything you hear, you can sign up on the spot.
Keep Your Coins Guarantee.
If after the first class you aren't convinced that this is right for you, you can withdraw from the course and receive a refund of your purchase. Yup, that's right, I'm making this virtually risk free for anyone who is serious about putting in the work to live their best life!
When does the program start and how long is it?The program starts as soon as you enroll. For 2019 we'll be teaching live classes each Wednesday through December 17th. When you join, you will get access to the course calendar which will detail what topic is being covered each week. There are 10 unique classes in the series which you can take in any order. You will have completed the series once you have taken all 10 classes (but you can repeat classes any time you like). Each class is between 60 and 90 minutes long.
I'm not Black... can I still register?Yes! This class is open to all women who are seeking to get out of their own way when it comes to love and relationships!
What if I identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual? Will this course work for me?"YES! The concepts we teach apply regardless of sexual orientation. You are welcomed and encouraged to sign up! Please know that your participation and experiences will be affirmed throughout the course.
Will this course help me find a husband (or life parnter)?Girl, we hope so! If you are open to changing your current beliefs about love and relationships, willing to complete all the coursework, and fully engage in the process, you will undoubtedly be different. You will increase the likelihood of finding and maintaining a lasting relationship, and your confidence to do so will soar. Now, we can't promise when and how soon this will manifest into a life partner because... well, we're not Jesus! We know there are blessings out there for you but we can't pinpoint the date! However, we can tell you that to date, ALL of the women who've completed this course report to either being in a relationship, happily dating, or to have significantly improved the quality of their current relationships.
What are the courses like?Uuummmm..... they're bomb diggity duh! LOL The courses are taught by our Black Girl Doctors who are licensed psychologists. The lectures are highly interactive and you will be required to participate throughout. This is how we make sure you are getting the concepts well enough to apply them to your own life! We limit the class sizes so you get lots of attention. Over the course of 10 weeks, you'll bond with your instructor and hopefully build close relationships with the other women in the course!
What if I have to miss a class?We're hoping you won't miss a class! We want each of you present to experience the courses live. You will get the most out of it if you are with us while we're teaching and can get your questions answered on the spot. However, we know stuff happens and over the course of 10 weeks, and you might need to miss a class (hands on hips). If that happens, no worries! The course recordings along with any handouts and materials will be provided for each class so you can catch up in between sessions.
Do I need to prepare anything in advance?Just bring an open mind and a willingness to step out of your comfort zone and grow! We'll take care of the rest ;-) Oh! and you'll also want to make sure you have a strong internet connection during the video calls. You will be able to use your computer, phone or tablet to join. If you plan to use a phone, we recommend you make sure you have it on a stand so you are hands free!
What if I'm unhappy with the course?We believe in the power of this program and are personally invested in the success of all of our students. We also don't believe in pressure sales tactics that leave you feeling regret! So, here's our guarantee -- You'll have two weeks after your purchase to attend your first class. If after that time you have a change of heart, or simply don't think this course is a good fit for you, you can request to withdraw from the course and we'll gladly issue you a refund. Requests for refunds after this introductory period will not be honored. Lastly, you'll have an opportunity to complete a course evaluation after each lesson to provide direct feedback on the course content and our teaching style. We regularly incorporate feedback received and continuously make improvements.
How is this course different from therapy?Please be advised that while we are licensed psychologists, this course is NOT group therapy and you will NOT be under our care as a client. This IS an educational course where you will learn new skills you can apply to your life to improve your experience with dating and relationships. If you are in emotional distress, this course should not be used as a substitute for seeking therapy for your emotional pain nor should our advice take the place of your current therapist or physician. Therapy is the process of meeting with a licensed professional in a confidential environment for the purpose of resolving problematic behaviors, beliefs, feelings and related physical symptoms that are causing mental distress or illness. Therapy includes a full psychological evaluation, diagnosis, and treatment plan, and relies upon the interpersonal relationship between you and the therapist to facilitate healing. While we will interact in the course, you will not recieve a psychological evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment plan. While we will ask the members of the group to keep what happens in the class private, the space is not legally bound by confidentiality and we won't know you well enough to help you with specific emotional distress. If you need help with emotional pain, we offer three resources: Work one of the Black Girl Doctors in 1:1 therapy (California residents only) Click Here Find a Black female therapist in your area Click Here Search our favorite national directory Click Here
Do I have to join the Facebook group?Of course not, it's completely voluntary! The private Facebook Group is meant to be a space where women who are going through the course and actively practicing eliminating their blessing blockers can give and get support from each other. If this isn't something you're into (or if you're on team #nonewfriends), there's no pressure to join.
What if I have more questions?We're always available to answer questions. Email us any time at Info@theblackgirldoctor.com